Assumptions can disrupt a relationship. They are the thoughts we have about someone or something, and we often convince ourselves that they are true. However, when we make assumptions, we miss the opportunity to learn and grow from our misunderstandings.
Say I am driving down the road, and someone cuts me off. I must swerve to avoid an accident. A knee-jerk reaction is anger, “What in the world is that person thinking?” And then comes a burst of emotion that distracts me from my driving.
It’s pretty much what the scribes and Pharisees did when Jesus said that our righteousness must surpass that of the scribes and Pharisees. Jesus uses the example of killing a person, “You shall not kill, and whoever kills will be liable to judgment.” Then he adds, “But I say to you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment.”
Jesus is pointing out the difference between a literal interpretation of the Law and the spirit of the Law. Anyone can follow the literal interpretation of the Law and think, “Well, I haven’t killed anyone.” We can become very delighted with ourselves, thinking we are better than others. Jesus calls this self-righteousness, a dangerous form of pride that can lead us away from God’s love.
The spirit of the Law challenges us to reflect on our innermost feelings. Even if we haven’t physically harmed anyone, harboring anger can hinder our relationship with God. Recognizing this allows us to seek Our Lord’s help to transform our emotional responses into acts of love and mercy.
Gospel Challenge:
If we find ourselves distanced from others due to anger, let us turn to our Savior, Jesus. Let us humble ourselves in the presence of His Divine Mercy. Let us hear Jesus interceding for us to His Father, “Forgive them; they know not what they are doing.” This divine forgiveness is always available to us, offering reassurance and comfort in our times of need.
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Father Rick’s Two-Minute Homily ~ Thursday, 10th Week in Ordinary Time
June 11, 2026, Matthew 5: 20-26
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Be Wary of Judgment?
Assumptions can disrupt a relationship. They are the thoughts we have about someone
or something, and we often convince ourselves that they are true. However, when we
make assumptions, we miss the opportunity to learn and grow from our
misunderstandings.
Say I am driving down the road, and someone cuts me off. I must swerve to avoid an
accident. A knee-jerk reaction is anger, “What in the world is that person thinking?” And
then comes a burst of emotion that distracts me from my driving.
It’s pretty much what the scribes and Pharisees did when Jesus said that our
righteousness must surpass that of the scribes and Pharisees. Jesus uses the example
of killing a person, “You shall not kill, and whoever kills will be liable to judgment.” Then
he adds, “But I say to you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment.”
Jesus is pointing out the difference between a literal interpretation of the Law and the
spirit of the Law. Anyone can follow the literal interpretation of the Law and think, “Well, I
haven’t killed anyone.” We can become very delighted with ourselves, thinking we are
better than others. Jesus calls this self-righteousness, a dangerous form of pride that
can lead us away from God’s love.
The spirit of the Law challenges us to reflect on our innermost feelings. Even if we
haven’t physically harmed anyone, harboring anger can hinder our relationship with
God. Recognizing this allows us to seek Our Lord’s help to transform our emotional
responses into acts of love and mercy.
Gospel Challenge:
If we find ourselves distanced from others due to anger, let us turn to our Savior, Jesus.
Let us humble ourselves in the presence of His Divine Mercy. Let us hear Jesus
interceding for us to His Father, “Forgive them; they know not what they are doing.”
This divine forgiveness is always available to us, offering reassurance and comfort in
our times of need.
Love Your Neighbor!
Fr. Rick Pilger, IC
www.bscchurch.com
www.rosminians.com
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