The Anointing of the Sick is a powerful encounter with Jesus in the areas where we suffer most. Surgery has its complications and difficulties. It can disrupt our lives, causing us to lose work and the ability to do even the simplest things for ourselves.
Over time, it can cause a lot of frustration, anger, and even a bout of depression. One of the worst pains is the loneliness that sometimes no one close can relate to.
Strangely, Jesus instructs us to pick up our cross of pain and suffering and follow him. He understands it is the only means to reclaim our innermost self, our best self.
I remember a good friend, a Catholic psychiatrist, telling me years ago, after surgery, “Embrace the pain, don’t fight it, embrace it.” At first, it sounded ridiculous. “Embrace it?”
When I did, I felt so helpless that I cried out to Jesus from a depth I didn’t know was there, “Help me, Lord Jesus. I can’t bear this suffering anymore.” I felt Jesus yoke himself to me and noticed something inside me change.
The pain from the surgery was still there, but the worry, anxiety, and the way I was beating myself up with angry thoughts were long gone. I realized later, through the grace of God, that I was embracing and loving myself through the pain. Gospel Challenge: Letting go of ourselves can be the most freeing experience of our lives. Imagine wrapping your arms around yourself and embracing that pain and suffering with all your heart. Don’t be afraid of feeling helpless sometimes—remember, the Lord always hears the cry of the poor and cares deeply. Embrace this journey with hope and trust.
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Fr. Rick’s Homily: Friday, 18th Week in Ordinary Time
August 7, 2026
Matthew 17:24-28
https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/080726.cfm
The Anointing of the Sick is a powerful encounter with Jesus in the areas where we
suffer most. Surgery has its complications and difficulties. It can disrupt our lives,
causing us to lose work and the ability to do even the simplest things for ourselves.
Over time, it can cause a lot of frustration, anger, and even a bout of depression. One of
the worst pains is the loneliness that sometimes no one close can relate to.
Strangely, Jesus instructs us to pick up our cross of pain and suffering and follow him.
He understands it is the only means to reclaim our innermost self, our best self.
I remember a good friend, a Catholic psychiatrist, telling me years ago, after surgery,
“Embrace the pain, don’t fight it, embrace it.” At first, it sounded ridiculous. “Embrace
it?”
When I did, I felt so helpless that I cried out to Jesus from a depth I didn’t know was
there, “Help me, Lord Jesus. I can’t bear this suffering anymore.” I felt Jesus yoke
himself to me and noticed something inside me change.
The pain from the surgery was still there, but the worry, anxiety, and the way I was
beating myself up with angry thoughts were long gone. I realized later, through the
grace of God, that I was embracing and loving myself through the pain.
Gospel Challenge:
Letting go of ourselves can be the most freeing experience of our lives. Imagine
wrapping your arms around yourself and embracing that pain and suffering with all your
heart. Don’t be afraid of feeling helpless sometimes—remember, the Lord always hears
the cry of the poor and cares deeply. Embrace this journey with hope and trust.
Jesus, I trust myself to you.
Peace everyone.
Love Your Neighbor!
Fr. Rick Pilger, IC
www.bscchurch.com
www.rosminians.com
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